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Post by Brighton on Sept 30, 2015 2:55:39 GMT
And I'm asking for an example of me doing that, Alex I'm not fighting or making a fool of myself. I do exept criticism/feedback but only from people that know me, other wise your just judging and labelling me as someone who creates fights, problems and can't accept criticism/feedback. But that's all incorrect so stop lying and tell me when I've been: aggressive, argumentative, disrespectful and anything else you pulled out of a hat
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Post by AlexonTuktuk on Sept 30, 2015 3:19:38 GMT
I dont have a motive to lie. Why would I care to lie about this? You just need to accept it and stop fighting it. Just because I dont provide evidence doesn't mean I'm lying. You're making feel likr you are too immature for this.
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Post by Brighton on Sept 30, 2015 14:28:53 GMT
Im asking for that because i don't REMEMBER me ever doing that, that means i might be being those things without realizing or your interpenetrating me wrong, like i say something, and i mean something else but you take it differently. Its not because i think your all lying to me, why would you lie? I know you wouldn't, you guys are good peoples.
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Post by Brighton on Sept 30, 2015 19:41:36 GMT
Someone that is mature asks for examples of them doing wrong things when people say they do, because they might be doing somthing that they don't realize is wrong. That's all I'm doing, also sometimes people have bad days, I've had a a lot, so sometimes their more iritable and less patient.
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Post by AlexonTuktuk on Sept 30, 2015 21:36:12 GMT
I feel as if you are implying that you think you are mature but you have a lot of "bad days." If you are having a lot of bad days then what is the point of you being staff? If your judgement is impaired by stress constantly that will mean you will either not play a lot or you will not care about others when you do play. By that statement alone you shouldn't be allowed to be staff.
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Post by Brighton on Sept 30, 2015 22:04:10 GMT
uuhh no what i mean by that is in the 4-8 times ive played with you i may have had a bad day, or as i said you might have misinterpreted me and thought i was being rude, aggressive, or argumentative. and still no one is telling me a situation where i was those things so i guess there is nothing i need to change
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Post by AlexonTuktuk on Oct 1, 2015 2:47:21 GMT
"Uhh no what I mean by that is in the 4-8 times I've played with you"
More around 40 due to my micro sections from 5-60 minuets and alts.
"I may have had a bad day, or as I said you might have misinterpreted me and thought i was being rude, aggressive, or argumentative."
Having a bad day cannot be your go to excuse for this behavior.
"No one is telling me a situation where I was those things so I guess there is nothing I need to change"
So I have to give you very specific situation for you to change your action? I'm pretty sure you can change your actions based on argumentative and aggressive.
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Post by Brighton on Oct 1, 2015 3:14:59 GMT
Im asking for that because i don't REMEMBER me ever doing that, that means i might be being those things without realizing or your interpenetrating me wrong, like i say something, and i mean something else but you take it differently. Its not because i think your all lying to me, why would you lie? I know you wouldn't, you guys are good peoples.
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Post by Brighton on Oct 1, 2015 3:28:30 GMT
Im a nice person, im not argumentative that's a fact, im also not disrespectful. Its just t mod and its not worth lying so everything ive said has been true. IRL a decent amount of time i am taken as being rude or disrespectful due to my tone, i talked to kimz and if i may, she told me that it was my tone, not particularly the things i was saying. I dont say mean things on porpoise thats just not me. and with my tone, i dont mean for it to sound sarcastic or like im angry.
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Post by AlexonTuktuk on Oct 1, 2015 3:57:22 GMT
First off, you got off a little too cocky in the first sentence talking so highly of yourself. Secondly, when I said argumentative I did not mean your tone of voice I ment you did not try to resolve the conflict you made it worse. In my notes, one scenario I put it was "A disagreement on a rule." If you can remember disagreeing with anyone on a rule it was most likely me. I don't remember anything about it because I'm focuing on not messing up my freshman year.
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Post by Brighton on Oct 1, 2015 13:03:00 GMT
Are you serous? That's being cocky? Wow. I'm done, I withdraw my application, your going to deep, it's just t mod I don't care enough to "discus" anymore with you. Btw when you and me "argued" about the rule, that was not an arguement. I told you what I thought the rule was and you corrected me on it. That was it . How old are you? Because you lack Experence, you call every disagreement an argument. Also you guys think I'm aggressive? Your wrong, I'm Defencive. I don't start fights. Learn the difference between them before you use the words incorrectly.
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Post by AlexonTuktuk on Oct 1, 2015 13:07:51 GMT
Thanks for your feedback, I will be galdly take it into consideration. I am 14 years old and I would like to know more how I can improve on my lack of experience.
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Post by Brighton on Oct 1, 2015 15:02:35 GMT
Not trying to be rude, but you can look up words that you don't fully understand, like the diference between aggressive and Defencive. But hounestly with my personality I'm not aggressive at all but I'm very defensive, that's how I am. I'm also bad at expressing myself, not like that is relevant but it means that I may say somthing that people may take differently than what I mean.
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Post by morty on Oct 1, 2015 19:01:40 GMT
Aggressive? Defensive? Both bad qualities. And you know what? It doesn't matter how old he is. You're both acting like children. You're both bickering back and forth. Neither of you are ending this fight, argument or whatever. You guys just keep going. You withdraw your app. That's fine if you want but you don't have to. I'm ending this fight. It's over.
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Post by Brighton on Oct 1, 2015 19:17:56 GMT
Everyone is ether defensive or aggressive or both
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